By Karen Lee StockerWe all at some point have negative people around us. How do you know? You can tell by how you feel when you are with them. You are not matching.
Let's say on a scale of 1-100, you are pretty positive person and attract good things into your life, so we'll call you a 90 on this scale. Wouldn't it be great if everyone in our life was a 90? But sometimes we have a negative Betty around us and we'll call her a 30 on this scale. She complains all the time, doesn't like her job and complains about her co-workers. When you are around her the difference between her 30 and your 90 is the resistance you feel when you are with her. Resistance is a negative feeling or negative vibration. Can she pull you down to a 30? Yes! Can you pull her up to your 90? Usually not.
Your job is to mind your positive vibration.
In order to raise her vibration to match yours, simply everytime you catch her complaining about what she doesn't want and what's not working in her life,
ask, So, What DO you want? She will start giving attention to what she does want which will raise her vibration. If you do this each time you are around her you are managing your own vibration. She will either be more positive when she is around you or she will disapate from your life and find someone else to complain to. It's better to let negative people disapate from your life because they will contaminate you.
Remember, people will treat you the way you allow them to.
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Karen Lee Stocker is a Certified Law of Attraction Facilitator and a Leader for Weight Watchers Canada. Find her online at Law of Attraction In Action and at LawofAttractionWorkbooks.com.
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